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dont let anyone be telling you how to do it , do it your way , its all about pleasure, as long as the woman is happy and getting pleasure im happy
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Hey, different is good. And there is nothing wrong with anything you mentioned. I doubt any of the guys who replied to the other blog would tell you they would not go miles out of their way for you and what you described. I also doubt that any of them get just that one thing and only that and reject the rest. I know that I completely enjoy a woman who is enjoying my cock and not a single thing you mentioned did anything other than get me hard thinking about them. As you mentioned, there are many ways to get a blow job and the woman really does dictate how it will be done. I have know a number of women who do not swallow and others that love it and honestly, I have no problem being sucked by any of them. You sliding up to ride me would be an excellent way to complete the sensations from your mouth. So, yes, you may be different (although I would say that you really are not), there are many ways to give head and nothing you mentioned would be a deal breaker to most men. Trust me, once you have their cock in your mouth, none of them are going to complain about anything 
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In my comment on the same blog I basically said I will enjoy it the most if you are also enjoying it... Sounds as if we'd both be very happy... Don't forget to explorefurther if you would like..... 
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You had me onside right up to the point you mentioned it was about your way. There would be 2 people involved so surely it should be a mutual pleasure activity, and you rendered your criticism of male inflexibility an utterance of rank hypocrisy
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if a woman chooses to give me that pleasure,it is as she wishes it to be. I will accept whatever she chooses to give in any manner
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what utter bollocks. I specifically mentioned mutual pleasure, so nobody could reasonably infer from that that I want total control of the situation.
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I am not one who would need the things that you read on that post..... Click Here To Read A Hot Erotic Story: When A Woman Meets A Stranger Part 1 of 4
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I absolutely agree with you in everything you say....being fucked....in any hole is not my objective when I am with a man....nor is gagging. The experience should be all about mutual pleasure and that comes from doing things you both enjoy in a manner which pleases both parties. I prefer if a man allows me to please him rather than tells me how I should do it.  ~~Anais Nin~~
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I do believe I would very, very much enjoy it your way... but then again I need to see/feel for myself. Thoughts from the Garden...
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Complicated... If someone only does what they want to do then are they really giving? Maybe it should be a dealbreaker, but not in the way you imagine. If you are not going to give the man what he wants, only what you want, then maybe he should walk. Equally, however, maybe you should take the position that if he wants something different to what you are prepared to give then it's a dealbreaker for you. Men are always being told that we have to listen to a woman's needs... to be sensitive to their wishes... to pay attention to how they react rather than rely on "Well it worked on the last one it will work on this one too". We are constantly being reminded that we have to be flexible, adaptable, imaginative - and not just stick to a limited repertoire. What you have said is completely the opposite of this. Also this idea that "a man should consider himself lucky to even get a bj and should be thankful for anything I chose to give him" isn't a helpful attitude for mutual satisfaction. Having said that, what you described would do me fine! Though I do like to cum in the woman's mouth for a special treat (birthdays and Christmas).
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Well, Any way you wanted to do it, that's the way it should be, There is a difference in quality between, playing with a cock with your mouth and enjoying it while your doing it, and sucking a cock just to make him cum, The end result is WAY MORE EXCITING if it is an adventure getting there. If she wants it rough and deep and choke me with your cock sex, it has it's place, and can be quite enjoyable, it's just not for everyone, the adventure is what you make it, however you like it, personally, if I give my cock to a woman to suck, she can do it however she wants and i'm going to enjoy every moment of it.
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Having grown up an matured in an almost porn free world, it is plain and obvious to me what is influencing a lot of folks and not just in this den of iniquity neither. But each to his own. After all, isn't that what compatibility is all about? Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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Your a woman not a sex toy. I'm with you because you are you, not a blow up doll or the Suckulator 5000. If I want sex by the number I'll subscribe to one of those VR sites where you hook your sexy toy up to the PC and it emulates the porn from their library. What's the point if every woman is exactly alike. I will confess though that so long as it doesn't bother her blow-jobs are more intense if she at least lets you cum in her mouth. It's just a fact for most guys. It's not a deal breaker though. I know taste and texture bother some women as well as the psychological thing. While the blow-job is more intrusive so it isn't a true equivalent, I relate it to how she might feel if I pulled away during oral as she came. I've had some hand and thigh death grips at that moment that I assume meant pulling away would have made it a lot less intense. It's her call though. I've found sex goes better if you (pardon the pun) give women their head. I want her to take control when she feels the need. I'm an adult male, its not like she is going to take advantage of me. I enjoy it when she takes control. Your technique of mounting the guy is fine though. I do that a lot anyway, let her get me to a certain point and then have intercourse. That's just basic foreplay. Every blow-job doesn't have to go to completion. You shouldn't need a battle plan and synchronized watches for sex. While the majority of men on here seem like really good guys there are a few that don't seem to have had much experience with flesh and blood women, or else the only ones they have been with have low self esteem or are desperate. I want a woman who is my equal in spirit, mind, body, and sexuality, not a blow-up doll that has to be fed regularly. I've been with what some men would consider fantasy women and they were real human women not sex fantasies. I don't know what they saw in me, but I'm not going to question a good thing. I do know though I was the one man they stayed with because I didn't treat them like the fantasy was what was special about them. I'm not pathetically grateful for a blow-job --- few women want that guy --- but I am grateful for her sexuality and that she expresses it with me. Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated. 
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your kind of different is my kind of perfect! i don't place ANY regulations on the delivery of fellatio! just receiving is reward enough and anyway my playmate wants to deliver is OK by me! as long as i can reciprocate
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I said the blow-job was more intrusive and it wasn't a true equivalent. but in my defense I didn't pull away or stop when they did squirt or ejaculate, and when the cat walked across Sarah's chest and made her sneeze and she peed I stuck it out as well. Sometimes a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do. But as I said I was only speaking strictly from the male pov. It is a gift, not something I expect or demand. I'm just grateful most women want it in their mouth at all. If she is enjoying herself I will. Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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MissK...B-O-I-N-G. That sounded great! Why wouldn't you do it your way? It's what you know. You've gotten good results. It's a starting point and, with your partner, you both explore what gives both of you pleasure. It's about mutual pleasuring.
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J..nice blog today..I think however, a lot of men complain about ladies who don't know how to give a proper blow job. Personally not everyone can do this..it takes great skillz to be able to fuck a man's cock with your mouth. But again that is just my opinion and the way I like to give them. Wish I can say I have never ever had a complaint there..except stalkers that never get enough..lol..Have a great night.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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1/4/2015 7:43 pm |
As far as I'm concerned, there is only one way to receive a great blow job: with just enough skill, and tons of enthusiasm.
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I see nothing wrong in what your saying, it's for both people, right?
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Its all about personal pleasure, what you prefer and I have no problem with that
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Have had several playmates that didn't swallow... not a deal breaker in my book! You can visit my blog here FreddiesFling!
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1/5/2015 5:58 pm |
How you described it, is how I like to receive it and ultimately how it should finish. I get immense pleasure from being brought to the brink by a talented woman and giving her what she wants where and when she wants it is an amazing way to finish.
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1/9/2015 6:41 am |
Sucking a mans dick is telling him you want to please him. When is making "sounds" it tells me he likes whatever I am doing...moving my tongue around the head, kissing his balls...etc. Everyone should enjoy the moment or two or three... Huggs, Jill Huggs, Jill Campbell
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There must be FIFTY ways! Or more! The only thing that I can say with conviction about oral sex is that I love it and I will never have another serious relationship without it!
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For me when I give BJ I do it to give the guy pleasure, But I am not willing to undergo discomfort or feeling like I am being forced when I do it. I use lots of techniques and seek what works best for each guy. Sometimes I even choose to swallow, and sometimes I choose not to. When I choose not to its because I am seeking to receive another kind of pleasure as I give another kind of pleasure. Really it is such a dance of give and take for both parties.
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Okay...I wasn't going to comment on this one as I'm so late in the game, and I was going to leave the comments to the guys, but holy smokes MissK...some of the comments were just plain rude...and that was on the first page! I'd like to point out...how many guys on this site love to give oral to their partners and state that it is a requirement of any partner they are with that they must love oral? It sounds like they would have the same technique as you do...paying complete attention to their partners physical responses to provide the most pleasure to them as possible. To have any man say that what you described was selfish is insane. And how many men on this site say that they aren't satisfied unless their partner is satisfied? If you are enjoying your brand of fellatio, then I defy any guy on this site if they were lucky enough to have you in bed with them to say they were not satisfied with you as a partner. Jerks!
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Some people walk a different path. Doesn't make it wrong, just makes it different. That you like to feel a guy aroused and explore his body in a way that is comfortable to you is good. Anyone who says otherwise. . .. Well, I think they might have an agenda. I have to look at it the same way as a gal asking if guys like to give a bit of face time to a lady. If a guy doesn't it doesn't make him bad, it likely means he either doesn't now how, or doesn't like to. I have also read between the lines not a lot of guys do that well either. some are exceptions to the rule, but not all of them have that gift. But alas, I digress. When you say you like something but not another in sex, it is after all your body. you do it the way you like. Sort of how a lot of men want sex, that is to say their way. So seeing it that way, it is like the saying what is good for the goose, is good for the gander. Thanks for the post too. got me to thinking a bit on this
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My dear Miss J, I believe this is just a case of a number of tstvdates.com men having poor communication skills. They see a topic that excites them and confuse their excitement with actually having something to say. Any man would be delighted and honored to have you make love to him as you described. It would be deliciously erotic and completely fulfilling. Do as you like, but your Professor recommends that you don't let the poorly considered opinions of these men define you as "different" or anything else. Stay strong and beautiful and keep that wonderful blog coming! My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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I had to read that twice, the second time even slower. You worked me up. I never had a cigaret in my life. I think it's time to start smoking.
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What's so different? Everyone has their own technique(s) and hopefully it includes more than one. The only problem is matching technique and timing with the moment of desire. The deal breaker will always be when it's a recurring mismatch.
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That is the way to properly do it. In my opinion one of the best ways to have a climax, and if its mutual.... Aequat homnes cinis (Seneca)
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Nope, not a deal breaker. It always feels great when a woman chooses to take my cock into her mouth. I surrender control at that point and go with the flow, it all feels good! If she want's to swallow or not, it's all fine with me. If she wants me to fuck her mouth, I will but it's not something I'm into. I'm also not into a woman gagging on a cock, I've never really seen the turn on with that . . . but then again that goes for a lot of things that seem to turn people on! lol.
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I think the perception that all men want woman to swallow during blowjob has come from the porn films as almost all of them end that way. My experience is that woman love the feel of your cum filling her pot & making her feel yourself emptying up in them.
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Expectations between lovers evolve as they get to know one another...the giver always has his/her partner's pleasure in mind, even while enjoying him/herself...the very art of lovemaking is to make the whole more than the cum of the parts
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Swallowing is not a big deal for me. Recreational sex is about sharing the pleasure and fun of sex.
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Funny. I'm pretty much of the same opinion you are, regarding oral sex. Despite my penchant for not swallowing... I've never had a guy complain. And even had one contact me over 2 years later .... he freaking REMEMBERED THE SONG PLAYING ON THE RADIO WHEN IT HAPPENED... I totally did it MY way, no swallowing. As long as both parties enjoy it.... that's what counts.
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1/22/2015 4:19 pm |
I wish that i had more to say. but Simply - That's a nice blog. I'll make sure to follow the rest of your stories. I'm sure you speak for a lot of woman.
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WOW ... what else to say You are WOW .. know what you want .. how you want ...when you want ... That makes a WOW person
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sounds great hun, bring it on
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wow baby..that is hot!! You can ride me anytime!!!!! We can get naked and fuck with some Pink Floyd music on...whatever album you want to hear!! wow!!
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How wonderful to be your own person, So your mind, body and soul is yours to with as you please. your not different, What I have read is you are unique.
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