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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/10/2014 5:36 pm

Sigh. I DID buy a new hat. i suppose I'll have to take a new photo.

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MWCinMD 57M/55F

11/10/2014 5:37 pm

Some of our pics are very old - but we haven't really changed. She still looks like she did 12 years ago. It's amazing. But we have new pics up too (from about two weeks ago). It doesn't make sense to misrepresent if you are really going to meet the other people... they'll be like... "Um... you looked cute in your pic, but you fugly now..."


rm_PrisicaK 49F
479 posts
11/10/2014 5:41 pm

I am not trying to out myself as a, fill in the blank, so I don't post a face pic, but my body pics are me and representative of what you will find when we meet. I have chosen to display the most enticing bits and have excluded the less attractive pieces. I think its wrong to hustle people. In person rejection is far worse than some words on a screen even if he is respectful. I wouldn't chance it.


Horny_Holly 43F
2767 posts
11/10/2014 6:33 pm

Meeting sooner rather than later is all well and good, but I wouldn't meet someone if I hadn't seen them on cam and felt comfortable that yes, this person is not misrepresenting himself.

I'm sorry that happened to you. Honesty is definitely the best policy. We have to take some responsibility, though, in checking who we're meeting up with. It's the sensible thing to do.

My profile pic was taken two months ago, the rest vary from this year to last.


"I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
11/10/2014 7:14 pm

My main photo is from this year, and it won't be old until next year, which is only a month a a half away.

As soon as it is next year, new photos, real simple.

Excellent post !!!


SirTeezalot 74M
21966 posts
11/10/2014 7:41 pm

Well I mean what's the bloody point, my profile pic isn't showing up anyway.

But I really have to disagree on this one.

In my book good looks are just the fancy packaging of a person. And so just like when you are looking to buy something in the supermarket or the department store you will automatically tend to favour the product that is nicely packaged and presented. That is unless you know from past experience that the same product sold loose and unpackaged or in plain "no name brand" packaging is perfectly good quality.

We all know that looks can be deceiving so it can only ever be a starting point.

But if you take a liking to someone through on line or phone chat, what do looks matter any more. Unless of course you are looking for a trophy bride.

But then I suppose it is easy for me to say if I am neither looking for a shag nor a trophy bride anyway.

Sir Teezalot

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roxy54sexy 61F
8914 posts
11/10/2014 7:42 pm

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469tall 75M
16824 posts
11/10/2014 9:55 pm

My picture is representative even though it is 4 years old. Of course you can't see much in the picture.



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GB_Cple 73M/62F  
3118 posts
11/11/2014 12:03 am

I have noticed recently that when I check out photos on a profile it often, but not always shows the date it was posted, - very helpful.

We first me you dear Kofla in 2005 or 2006, and judging from your recent photos you have not changed at all, just a little older


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
11/11/2014 1:22 am

My profile is fairly out of date, though I don't show my face so it's not entirely misrepresentative. I'm not looking to meet anyone for jollies, so I don't feel the need to update it.

As for others, I kinda look at everyone online these days as false, to some extent or other, until I get to know them.


LaffLuvLilyslive 57F
2456 posts
11/11/2014 3:13 am

People can be down right not so smart... my pics are current on my profile a couple are from my old profiles but they still represent me, I couldn't believe I put up a face pic, I am getting bolder I guess. unfortunately I can not comment on meeting in person, I have never done that no one has wanted to chat as long as I need to they loose patience. As long as I need depends on the person and how well the chat goes.. better to know up front if you can communicate everything depends upon that in relationships.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/11/2014 9:25 am

    Quoting  :

Oh, I think it must go back to early August, or maybe even july.

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rm_19harley86 74M
45446 posts
11/11/2014 10:33 am

I don't mine dining alone

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NickRules999 46M
9458 posts
11/11/2014 10:59 am

Not only have I fallen victim to false pictures, but quite often, they were from people who were miles away. I guess it was better that way, as there was little to no chance of meeting.

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MovingOn001 68M
929 posts
11/11/2014 11:05 am

The photo I have on my profile is three years old, but facially I am about the same as I was then with most of my gray hair residing in my beard. I have lost some weight since then when I cut out the beer, so I no longer have my big beer gut. I guess it's time to update my photo again. I just hope I don't break the camera like the last time I did when I had my pic taken for my driver's license.


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
11/11/2014 1:23 pm

I don't post face pics publicly here and I don't really bother updating my profile pic. I do have a face pic in a friends network folder. I'm not really looking for anyone so I don't feel it's that important.

In the days when I was meeting men from the site....it would take a few weeks of messages on the site, emails and chat off site before we would actually meet up. By then we would no doubt have exchanged current photos.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

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GB_Cple 73M/62F  
3118 posts
11/11/2014 10:46 pm

    Quoting  :

No Goddess, but have had contact with EE Eve, and Papy and celtic Flower, whom visits us when shes travelling though


GB_Cple 73M/62F  
3118 posts
11/11/2014 10:50 pm

    Quoting GB_Cple:
    No Goddess, but have had contact with EE Eve, and Papy and celtic Flower, whom visits us when shes travelling though
p.s. our profile pic is a month old, lol


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
11/13/2014 5:51 pm

devil horns, {{ off to look at your photos }}


tylerdlv8 42M  
13 posts
11/16/2014 1:44 pm

i don't understand it... i mean eventually you will meet and then it was all for nothing.


dimplesfouryou 53F
24690 posts
11/21/2014 5:52 pm

There is no excuse for not being honest when you are planning on meeting someone face-to-face. If you can't be honest about a little thing like sending an updated picture, what kind of honesty can I expect from you? Nope. Not going to happen.

On another topic, it was wonderful to read some of your posts again today! So happy to see you are still around and making people think, my old friend!

Dimps


songbird55007 64F
9 posts
11/22/2014 5:53 pm

Cherokee 2 doesn't think it is important. Everybody has feelings and desires in this life. Just because you feel that they don't meet your standards doesn't mean that they don't have feelings and needs like you. I have been told on here that I look mean. This is Morningstar. That is only in the eye of the beholder. My husband is kind, gentle and a very caring person. The way a person looks is not always the personality of that person. Please don't judge.


ElDeano64116 66M

11/23/2014 5:15 am

I always update my pics now and then. I got burned, so to speak, once like that. Chatted with this Lady for a couple of weeks. Saw her pic and I thought, real nice. I finally met her at the restaurant and realized her pics were like 10 years and 100 lbs different from how she was now. Had a nice polite dinner and that was it. I was out of there, I walked her to her car but a nice handshake and that's it. I'm not shallow but I believe in being honest from the start.


SWEETWET888 55F
156 posts
11/28/2014 7:10 pm

I can only speak about my own Experience I have noticed some people on here have pics of themselves that are 10 to 15 years old. then they sent a recent pic they look nothing like their profile picture...that's why I say we all have good days when we look real good but come on show what you look like now...personally I have to be attracted to what the person looks like and also what the person is inside. And if we have some type of connection chemistry..I really don't get it when someone doesn't even have a picture profile why would one even waste your time or energy to meet this person that's already a red flag right there...I hate cheap guys why would anyone think that being cheap on a date is a turn onif anything that's a turnoff in my book!! I never had problem with men online or the real world I meant men everywhere when I go to the store I mean anywhere..


CampoGirl 57F
43434 posts
12/3/2014 10:28 am

Im guilty of having older photos.... my most recent was 6 months ago.... I havent changed much tho. not much at all.

Right now I have someone misrepresenting them self on my chess team, trying to have 2 profiles... and playing with peoples head... he's getting the ax ASAP.

Now on my Blog: 👄 New Pictures 👓


sinkingin2u 62M
6 posts
12/4/2014 3:50 am

I never exchange face pics, I will cam in real time and expect any dates to do the same. Pics can always be faked or stolen from somewhere else. Always better to see the real person on cam. After being on these sites for a few years you begin to realize that alot are on here for fantasy time not real time.


itcurls 41M
59 posts
12/7/2014 9:19 pm

People just play to many games.


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