The best way to describe swinging for us is it is just friends with benefits. Most humans have a fantasy of enjoying the thrill of another per's lovemaking from time to time. Respecting one another, and fulfilling our fantasies together is our choice. It sure beats the heartbreak of cheating we've seen in some of our friends and family. We choose not to disrespect ourselves, our marriage, or living life always wondering. We just don't do guilt or lying in our relationship. We love each other dearly, love to have adult fun occasionally, and enjoy making those special friends that you can tell everything that you love without reservation or judgement. For us it isn't really a "lifestyle" so much as living life's journey to its fullest. As Ernest Hemingway said, "The shortest answer is doing the thing." Right now photos are just me. I assure you that she exists. lol. She flirts with others and reads your profiles alone and with me as do I. Pics however scare her posted here because our experience is limited and we are new to AFF. If we flirt with you we both are interested and have both viewed your profile first. If we've viewed your profile it could be me, her, or both of us. We're just playing here and looking for new potential friends. If you are interested and respond, we'll make sure that you know we are for real and a true loving married couple. We'll always be politely candid and honest in all we say and do. Our s live with us, she's a shy mom who's very hot in the right atmosphere. I'm more wicked. :) We're both white, married with ren, fairly new to lifestyle. We're selective, but more because of perality compatibility than wanting Ken & Barbie. We always play together, same room. We cannot host. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal litigation.

My Ideal Person A married couple with a bi (or bi-curious) female. NO SINGLE MEN. A couple who only play together and understand we are new and have some limits at the moment to what she wants to do. Couples who understand we do most everything that isn't painful except penetration of her (she has safety concerns) and that she may change her mind about that and she may not. A couple that values friendship too, where the gals can become friends with the gals, the guys friends with the guys, and the couples always play together with us. Discretion is, of course, paramount with us being parents. I will not chat/meet alone with the woman in your couple and she will not chat/meet alone with the man—ever. Your marriage and our marriage we expect to be strong and we want to protect both of them as much as you do.

Super heavy isn't for us. Anorexic isn't either. Ideally, you'll be friendly, non-judgmental, understanding of our likes and our limits, and be as committed to playing together as we are.

We want your marriage to be happy, healthy and fully committed to one another. No drama.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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