Read the whole profile. If you can't spend a couple minutes finding out about me and what I want, why the hell should I waste my time on you? If your first message out of the box is "Wanna meet tonight?" you will get a negative response and I will stop talking to you. If you send me your contact information in the first message, I will ignore you. Meeting guys on the net is dangerous and I will not even consider meeting until you have passed my safety inspection. I absolutely need to be and feel safe. If you are looking for a woman who is smart as hell, funny, easy to get along with, and no nonsense, then I'm your type of girl. I am not a girly girl though. I own one pair of heels and haven't worn them in years. I'm an adventurer looking for my next adventure. Life has led me down some interesting and sometimes dangerous paths and I've loved the trip. But it has made it hard for me to find guys that can relate to me. Living with danger brings about a different mindset that most people just don't get. I'm not a little Barbie doll. I am a BBW. If you're not into that, fine. Pass on by. I am drama, free. Seriously. I don't like and will not hang around people who are wrapped up in BS. I don't do drugs and I'm disease free, so you be, too. I don't do married. Women deserve better that to get fucked around on by someone they should be able to trust. My career allows me to take off whenever I want. That doesn't mean I'll drop everything to get laid, but it does mean there is a possibility. My time is valuable to me so, don't be wasting it.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a manly man. He should be MORAL, sweet, respectful, funny, and smart as hell. Intelligence turns me on.

He also needs to be in or have done some kind of dangerous profession. Fire, police, soldier, ect. For the record, a cook in the military makes you a soldier, but probably won't make you my man. It's about more than the uniform.

I like my men manly. If you feel the need to 'prove' you're a tough guy, move on. I know a tough guy when I see one and he doesn't feel the need to prove shit. By the same token, real tough guys don't need to be mean. They tend to be the gentlest people with the ones they care about.

I'm looking for someone who is gentle and wants to make me happy. I know what I want and won't keep you in the dark about it. That's for childish drama queens. If I'm upset, you'll know it and know why.

I want a man, not a slave or some girly cross dresser. My perfect man needs to be willing to cuddle, massage, and eat pussy for long periods. He also needs to be in good shape. I love watching muscles flex and move. In exchanged, he gets a sweet, no nonsense kinda woman, that ,if handled properly, is vocal, multi-orgasmic, and can go for HOURS, but he better be up to the task.

Things I will not accept: jerks, selfishness, drug use, prison time, smoking, drinking to excess, cross dressing, sissies, anger issues or abusive tendencies. I have a specific physical appearance that I am attracted to so don't be surprised if I turn you away. I will do it with a message though.

If you meet the requirements mentioned above and want to contact me, please do. Make the first words, 'I want to cuddle you' and I will know you read the whole message. If you don't include the 'I want to cuddle you', I will know you didn't read the full profile and will blow you off. If you would like bonus points, send a naked chest pic. I like naked chests as much as you do.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Respecting boundaries

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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