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I don't actually think secrets go away if there are no people holding judgement over our heads. Sometimes secrets are fun things to hold within our hearts, No one is in the rest room, Kk The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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I think it's self-judgment that creates those secrets. Because we feel that others will judge. It starts with our own feelings and acceptance. Bottle is green and there's no one in the rest room ...
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Once I've worked through those "secrets" I no longer fear the judgement, and am able to move them from being "secrets" to being just another part of me, a piece that I am comfortable with sharing..... That line really resonates for me - that's how it works for me. If I accept that part of me, it takes away all the power from other people's judgments. And that makes for a far happier life! thanks for sharing! Always tell the truth Use kind words Keep your promises Giggle and laugh Be positive Love one another Always be grateful Forgiveness is mandatory Try new things Say please and thank you Say your prayers Smile ~Author unknown
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Revealing a secret can be like lifting a weight off of one's shoulder. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Great post I was going to do something similar to this one..but seein'g show you have done it I don't have to..
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Unless we judge ourselves, it doesn't matter what others think. Bottle is green and there's no one in the restroom. Visit my blog It's a Mad, Mad, Mad World of NaughtyInSO, leave a comment, become a watcher. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ LIVE AND LET LIVE Be happy! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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In general, secrets make trouble, so I don't like them...only a good mystery movie J. Goethe
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The beer's in a can...and it's the only thing in the can. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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As a few here have said, sometimes it's best to keep the secrets to yourself if revealing them would only result in pain for others. We must all come to terms with our past, accept it for what it is, know we cannot change it and try to move on. We are, after all, all human...we make mistakes. We fall prey to our feelings and searching out ways to alleviate pain and loneliness. It's my feeling that because I am truly sorry for some of the things I have done, eventually if I can forgive myself, all is ok. The only person who was truly hurt was myself. Take care. You are a good person. I can tell by your thoughts presented here in your blogs. Don't be too hard on yourself. Read RESPECT WE all NEED to do Better and Re Petition to Stop Transsexuals from Using Female Profiles
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This is a fine meditation on secrets and their use, and I thank you... but WHY is the beer Heineken, and what does the floppy hat have to do with it? Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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