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Italianguy06 74M

8/17/2019 12:56 pm

Absolutely agree with you ! Another point to consider is that a lot of paying members hookup / meet the so-called freeloaders to encounters. Without the freeloaders the selection pool greatly diminishes.


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/17/2019 1:07 pm

lol I am so hating fear mongers who totally disrupt the site by saying things that they dont know or can prove ...ppl say whatever they want on here because they are the " I think i know everything" people yet they have no proof of anything....


NYLV7002 45M
19 posts
8/17/2019 1:10 pm

Yeah this site is going downhill quick


shadowtoo69 68M  
1056 posts
8/17/2019 1:10 pm

So buy one of the Buzz vibrators and get your points that way. I agree tstvdates.com is broken and needs lots of work, but I am so glad not to get 5 or 10 IM's a day with phone numbers or scam web sites.


NeverbeenWNTD 49M

8/17/2019 1:11 pm

That SUCKS!!


one2onegso 63M
80 posts
8/17/2019 1:13 pm

Thanks for sharing! Isn’t that mostly what it’s about?


skypilotc140 56M
95 posts
8/17/2019 1:18 pm

Another misconception of the "freeloader" is that they always have been one. I had a paid membership for several years and amassed a huge pile of points - nearly 9000. When I switched to standard I began using the points I had earned as a paid membership. And then I watched as they suddenly started vaporizing! The only thing I used them for was the occasional chat after the free ones were consumed. Chat "cost" jumped from 1 point to 10. Interestingly, it is still just 1 point on Alt. But even with the cost increase my points just went away. Like Social Security!


SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
8/17/2019 1:24 pm

IMO It’s NOT the free members as a whole that are the problem, but the self entitled among them that ABUSE the freebies and points system, making a nuisance of themselves in the process, that are the source of the problem. Unfortunately those that have been long time CONTRIBUTORS are suffering as a result of the site management’s attempt to stop those that are the problem.

Proof of that would be the many years of relatively undisturbed freebies before craigslist shut down their personals. For anyone that has been here for many years, it’s not too difficult to notice when the rot started.


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
8/17/2019 1:35 pm

Hi, thanks for sharing...

we are only 2718 miles away from communicating face to face...

think of the possibilities...

have a great day...

To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog:

Good luck!!!


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
8/17/2019 1:57 pm

I think I made a statement several months back about blogs. This was made after the pay to broadcast stopped, and then started to charge to watch.. In last day there has been to many report "Admin" all over their site, it has been on mine for two days , and it is normally a prelude to another change, A lot of thought as to the actions of Free members, Good or bad. This place has to make money to stay in business. If the mother Ship thinks the free community is causing the money issue They will have to make adjustments to compensate, At this point Bloggs are supporting a lot of free members, but that will run out as they max out. not many activities pay any points to amount to anything anymore. It will come to the point that a free member will have to BUY his points, at a dollar a hundred, if they stay priced the same. Once you max out no more free points.; for CAM, for post, for like, for comments.. and it doesn't take long to max all of them out..
You make the guess on what is next? I say it will happen to blogland..Not sure exactly what or how hard, but I think it is next, it's the only thing left!!!!

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


1naughtyguy18 54M

8/17/2019 1:57 pm

not sure how thing will turn out but alot may leave .


lfs074 50M
13 posts
8/17/2019 2:24 pm

This site has changed over time and usually for the worse....I don't know a better place yet to go to meet/chat...so until then we all are in the same boat.
If you do know a better place let me know please


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/17/2019 4:16 pm

I'm going to place myself in the , "Wait and see", group. Speculating what might happen is fun for discourse, but really doesn't solve anything.


dogslife2live01 71M

8/17/2019 4:47 pm

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    lol I am so hating fear mongers who totally disrupt the site by saying things that they dont know or can prove ...ppl say whatever they want on here because they are the " I think i know everything" people yet they have no proof of anything....
people in glass houses should not throw stones!

electrastorm69 i do believe the majority of the comments (at least mine) were not so much thrown at the freeloaders, as much as those freeloaders that were(and still are) whining that they are entitled to the free stuff.
although it is true that the freeloaders do enhance the site, they are also just as damaging to the site, by their moving people away from the site to other sites.
but you are right only the future will tell the faith of this site

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
8/17/2019 5:56 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    I'm going to place myself in the , "Wait and see", group. Speculating what might happen is fun for discourse, but really doesn't solve anything.
I don't see any thoughts or actions that we can do to solve any of the issues, It is seen each evening that the number of members on line and on IM is way down and dropping daily...They know they are drowning , they have not yet figured where the lift vest is..

I to am in the wait and see and even at the cost, to me it is the cheapest entertainment going..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


DoUIntheButt 42M
118 posts
8/17/2019 10:40 pm

This site is just PLAIN CRAPPY!! They are taking away everything!! It use to be fun to come on here. The people were allot more interesting at the site was flowing. The people have changed a bit (not for the good ,then again not sure) but the site quality!! Toilet! Why would I pay for Bad communication services. Bad IM , emails barely goes through can't view friends albums or pics secret rules and the list goes on. Pornhub is better.Not sure they have chat/IM but you can email view members pics and vids and watch free porn. When they get chat IM i am OUT!!


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
8/17/2019 11:28 pm

Never a dull day on the premises indeed my lady …
- like Heathen says, we'll just wait and see

As for the "points" amassed from various activities,
(apart from the many glitches and counter screw ups)
I don't think it's sustainable for someone to do it solely for them
a "free loader's" true colors would show

Spoken from an 8 year "free loader's" point of view

Cheers my lady

P


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
8/18/2019 9:43 am

They slashed what one could earn in points writing a blog a long time ago.So this is
nothing new .Just another opinion about a group of people who know the site isn't worth paying for but can't miss a minute of not being here.

Using more than all the road!


Scriffraff 54M

8/18/2019 6:44 pm

I have been hoping that the administrators of the site would at least take the opinions of users into account, and base future decisions and points allocations on a popular consensus.. guess it is wishful thinking.


Isaacboone1111 44M
32 posts
8/19/2019 4:10 am

Damn. That was...wow


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
8/19/2019 6:18 am

There are no points in blogging after your first 5 posts/10 comments. !00 points max for each. In my opinion, the blogs are basically ignored by the site. They can't be accessed on the mobile app - which is where the site is focusing it's "fund raising"

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


rm_1littlehose 61M
528 posts
8/19/2019 5:54 pm

My sentiments exactly. Over 15 years on this site as a freebe, I too, when it gets to the place that it is no longer fun to read the blogs, communicate with "friends', as only standards can, thru the blogs, will disappear silently as well! No great loss for this site.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/22/2019 2:01 pm

I'll go GOLD 🥇 for a while... then I won't.
This place.. is what it is - a diversion and sometimes "fun" place to hang out.
I live in a big city with tons of opportunities to meet real people... not cyber sissies.. so I'm good - either way.
Some.. just don't know how to get what they want, nor do they really know how to play this game.... Do they? 🤔


leoneptune 44M
13 posts
8/29/2019 2:10 am

guessing i will be here till my points finishes i wont be paying


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