I'm a 32 year old, good looking, straight, euro guy. Am an experienced, caring Dom with over 15 years experience. . New to Shanghai and looking for a new sub or perhaps a woman with a desire to explore her submissive side. I am open, honest, easy going, a lot of fun and incredibly kinky. While I am a strong and at times stern Master, I am kind, generous, extremely patient (especially for people just exploring the lifestyle) and most importantly, I am fair. For a prime sub slave, Ideally I am looking for a secure, honest, discreet D/s relationship. It is not a pre-requisite for the relationship to be monogamous, but what is key is implicit emotional trust which will be developed over time. In addition to a prime sub slave, I am also very interested in meeting women who have kept hidden their desire to engage in a submissive lifestyle. Whilst the fantasy or desire appears in your thoughts, there is generally a fear to overcome at various stages early on. I am very experienced in guiding woman down this path, helping them push towards and past points that they only thought possible in their deepest fantasies. A key part of the D/s relationship is the ability to challenge and test your boundaries in a trusting, safe and sane manner. . I am looking for 1 prime sub and perhaps 1 or 2 secondary sub slaves. I know the D/s scene in Shanghai isnt massive but I also know that you are out there somewhere. If you are without a Master or if you have found yourself fantasizing about the lifestyle and you get pleasure out of serving then please do get in touch. If you are unsure about what it all entails, but you are turned on by the thought of serving and being a sub, please drop me a note. I'd be happy to have a frank, open and honest conversation with absolutely no pressure. I am genuine and expect the same in return, please dont waste my time, I want to make the most of the time before Summer. . Please send detailed replies, with face pic, not interested in naked shots. I expect you to be D&D free, respectful of boundaries and limits. Please get in touch asap so I can contact you immediately. I will reply to ALL genuine emails. Secure couples are also invited to reply if the female is looking for a Master or some training and the male is unable to provide this but wishes to be a part of the transformation process. .

My Ideal Person Ideally I am looking for A) 1 prime sub and 1 or 2 secondary subs.

For the prime sub, I am looking for someone who has experience in giving themselves completely. My prime sub will be my number 1 relationship. Even though you could possibly be married or attached, in the confines of our D/s relationship we each come first. You will be passionate and experienced in the art of service and pleasuring your Master. We will work on a plan for you to continually grow and push yourself, you will find mental and sexual enjoyment through varying degrees of BDSM and in carrying out your duties.

Ultimately I want to help you find yourself, reinvigorate your fetish appetite and revel in your purpose as a sub / slave.

I am especially turned on by subs who are extremely strong on the outside or in their day-to-day work life. Intelligence, drive and an opinion are all very important. Your strength in the boardroom or on the conference call is extremely sexy, but what is even more of a turn on is when you drop all of that strength at the door and assume your kneeling position.

Secondary sub slaves:
This is where it gets interesting. I am not interested in any particular race, religion, colour, body size or shape. The most important identifier is that deep down inside you, you are turned on by the thought that you will learn to serve a Master, and that you secretly derive sexual pleasure in a way that you havent been able to understand, nor have you been able to share your fantasies with your previous partners for risk of ridicule or misunderstanding.

Like with the primary sub, I will guide you, educate you, challenge you and most importantly, I will finally help you discover a sexual pleasure that you have only wished for. You will learn to appreciate being in bondage and the art of bondage and S&M.

While the relationship between Me and you, the secondary sub, will be different from that that I have with the primary sub, over the course of the relationship you will have the power to decide how far you wish to take the relationship and how much deeper into the lifestyle you wish to delve.

In addition to the mental and emotional state required and the general duties required of a sub, a key part of the relationship are the alternative sexual practices. Safe sex will be practiced at all time and while I will push you, I will also have respect for certain boundaries. Outside of these though, there is almost nothing off limits sexually. For both the primary and secondary subs I am looking for women who whilst scared, are nearly ready to open up and reveal their deepest fetishes and with my help and guidance do all the things they have only thought about up till now.

My last long term slave was in the US and lasted for close to 4 years, ending when I moved to Shanghai. If you are genuine and serious and would like a reference from my last slave, this can be organised. I am very genuine and looking for the same. Please feel free to ask any questions etc. if you need clarification. Thanks. .

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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