Hi, I am, I believe, well educated and supposedly quite fun to be with. I enjoy the company of people who can hold a good conversation, a rational argument, and are non judgmental who respect others wishes and desires. A sense of humour in this day and age is vital! I am well traveled,having lived abroad for over nearly 20 years. I'm gainfully employed, stable and well mannered (I hope!)

My Ideal Person My Ideal Person: I am hoping to find a single lady or couple (F/F or M/F)for friendship, companionship and sexual adventure. I enjoy the alternative/fetish lifestyle, both as the dominant or as the submissive, that role really depends on what the other person wishes. I enjoy experimenting, and will try anything new at least once - maybe even twice - as I do firmly believe that if you never try you may miss out on something that really floats your boat. Incidentally, please don't take my 'likes' list as carved in stone, obviously if there is something in that list which isn't to your taste then we simply wouldn't do it. Likewise if you want to try something that isn't on my list then let's give it a go. Also - there is absolutely nothing wrong in vanilla!

I do think though that the meeting of the minds is of paramount importance. I am looking for someone to have relaxing drink with, a normal 'date' before or after we enjoy each other in a more intimate way. The physical side for me just doesn't work without the mental. (Any ladies out there who require a - sorry)In an ideal world I would like to meet someone before the holiday season starts, and welcome in 2013 with a new friend and companion.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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